I often wonder, "How did this happen?" Was it the simple act of expressing what I wanted?" As I said, I had no vision board or action plan to achieve this career goal. Did the universe conspire to make this happen as Paulo Coelho proclaims in The Alchemist? Was it pre-destined that it was meant to happen?
A cousin of mine commented to me recently that when she was little she had a scrapbook with pictures of houses that are remarkably similar to the house she now lives in. A former coworker who grew up in upstate New York told me that when she was a little girl she was obsessed with Russia for some reason and had a map of Russia on her bedroom wall. It turned out that many years later she married a man from Russia. Stories like these abound.
Sometimes we get impatient when we wish or pray for things and they don't happen immediately. However, when we look back on our earlier lives and the things we had hoped and prayed for, we often realize that they did eventually happen...not necessarily in our time, but in God's time or the Universe's time. Take a moment to reflect on this idea. Are there things that have manifested in your life that you had wished for long ago? Sometimes we take these things for granted, not realizing that they had once been desires or dreams that have remarkably come true with very little effort on our part. Take a moment to feel thankful for these blessings.
The beautiful thing is that the Universe will continue to conspire on your behalf, as it has for me. I find myself now working in a university environment that is the absolutely perfect place for me. All of my thoughts and desires about what I wanted in a work environment have come to fruition in this place, at this time. Sometimes we despair and abandon our dreams and desires if they don't happen when we want them to. Be patient. It took 17 years for my initial dream to manifest into a reality. When the time is right, the Universe will also conspire on your behalf to make your dreams a reality.
Thanks Deb, great blog. On the flip side of our ability to develop into our visions is that the negative thoughts/visions may prevail as well. It is so important to have a "that's not an option in my life" mantra as well. In fact that's how I was able to quit smoking. I told myself I was not a smoker, I told myself I was just trying it out and it wasn't for me. I said this out loud, to myself, hundreds of times during the first few weeks. I only quit once.
ReplyDeleteLoved this blog, Deb! So inspiring and so YOU. May all your dreams come true!
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