Trying to Find Your Purpose in 2020? It Might be Right in Front of You

Many people are searching for their purpose in life – their ultimate true calling that will make their lives fulfilled – and this search often comes to the forefront at the approach of a new year. I know because I’ve been there. I struggled for many years trying to figure out what my purpose was in life. I even went to a spiritual director to discern my higher calling. But to no avail. I never got that “magic” answer that I so desperately craved. Most people are similar in that they expect to have this big “aha” moment when their purpose is ceremoniously revealed. But it doesn’t work that way.

Then one day, out of the blue, it just hit me that I WAS fulfilling my purpose in life which is to coach, encourage and motivate students toward achieving their career goals. I had thought my purpose would be found in pastoral ministry but then realized that my job was my ministry when I was kind, supportive and encouraging to my students. While I was searching and searching and searching, my purpose in life was right there in front of me!

Are you trying to find your purpose in life? The beginning of a new year is often a time when people reflect on this topic and decide to make some changes. As with me, your purpose in life might very well be what you’re doing right now. Does your vocation or avocation bring you joy, happiness and fulfillment? Do you feel that you’re making a difference, of whatever magnitude, and affecting people’s lives in a positive way? If not, then maybe it is the time for you to do some reflecting and discerning to find your true purpose.

Finding one’s purpose in life can be a highly elusive concept that often happens fluidly, imperceptibly and organically. Pay attention to what you naturally love to do. What is it that you get totally immersed in and lose track of time? Pay attention to those things that bring you a sense of fulfillment and joy. What do people say you’re good at or are your key strengths? Pay attention to that as well. Maybe something you’re doing on a volunteer basis or your hobbies could be your purpose in life.

I remember hearing a story about someone who worked at the Post Office. She called it her “church” because she offered out kindness and compassion to all with whom she interacted. Similarly, I once worked with a woman who was the receptionist in our company, and I would often tell her that she could do greater things. Liz would always reply with a smile and say that she loved her role as greeter where she could spread her light and love to all.

Oftentimes finding one’s purpose in life means simply “blooming where you are planted.” Reflect on the ways that you may be currently affecting others in a positive way to make a difference whether it be in your job, volunteer position, hobby, etc. Consider different ways in the new year that you can have a positive impact on those right around you. It doesn’t have to be monumental. As Mother Teresa said, “Do small things with great love.” If you are doing that, then you are fulfilling your purpose in life.