Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Surrendering to the Storm

Here in the Northeast we are hunkered down today as blizzard Juno sweeps through the region. Most businesses are closed and life as we typically know it has ground to a halt. All because of Mother Nature. In the 70's there was a very popular margarine commercial in which Mother Nature menacingly proclaims at the end, "It's not nice to fool Mother Nature." Although we may not try to fool Mother Nature, we bristle against the idea that she, or the universe, or a higher power has ultimate control over our carefully calculated, down-to-the minute plans. Flights are canceled. Electrical power is lost. Heat is extinguished. Our meticulously crafted plans get tossed and scattered like pieces of debris in the whirling blizzard winds.

A blizzard is a bold reminder to us that we are not in control and that we need to learn to surrender. Not just during the height of a snowstorm, but every day. This is a difficult lesson to live by because our egos want to be in control, but trying to control every aspect of our lives causes us a lot of unnecessary stress. Although surrendering is difficult to do, when we learn to cultivate a habit of surrender, we soon realize that life gets easier and that our stress begins to melt away like snowflakes hitting a warm car windshield.